Today my parents have been married for 22 years. I look at them and cannot deny that they are still madly in love. I believe that this is something so rare these days and for that I am so grateful.
What makes a relationship work? Is it just compromising 24/7? Is it agreeing to disagree? Is it not getting upset over the little things?
I agree that all these things are important, but my mum has always told me one thing when it comes to relationships:“When you only think about yourself and what your not getting out of it, you become unhappy. So always think about the other person. Then you will forever be happy.”
Some of you may or may not agree, but the point I guess is, selflessness is key.
The most beautiful relationship I have is with my heavenly father who so selflessly gave his son for me. Its getting over yourself and realizing that you love the other person so much that they should be put before you. Its letting go of your ego and realizing how blessed you are with the person you are with!
To my parents: May you continue to fall more in love with each other every day.
If I am able to have a marriage that is half as amazing as yours, I’d be so grateful!
With all my love,
Mandy X
This was so nice to read.
